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Myths and Misconceptions

There are many harmful myths and misconceptions around sexual assault.

These myths can minimise people’s experiences, shift blame onto victim survivors, or create confusion about what consent and sexual violence really mean. They can make it harder for people to seek support or feel believed.

If you are questioning your experience or blaming yourself, you are not alone. What happened to you is not your fault, and you deserve support.

Common Myths and Facts

Myth: Sexual assault is usually committed by a stranger
Fact: Most people who experience sexual violence know the person responsible

Myth: If someone didn't fight back, it wasn't serious or they are partly to blame
Fact: People respond to trauma in many different ways, including freezing, complying, or trying to reduce harm. These are normal responses to an unsafe situation.

Myth: Using alcohol or drugs means someone is partly to blame
Fact: Responsibility always lies with the person who chose to cause harm. A person cannot give consent if they are affected by alcohol or drugs.

Myth: False reports are common
Fact: False reports are rare. Australian studies estimate 87%-90% of sexual assaults are not reported to police.

Myth: There is a "right" way to react after an assault
Fact: Everyone responds differently. There is no single or "correct" response to trauma.

If you would like more detailed information, you can access the Victoria Police factsheet on challenging misconceptions.

If reading this page has raised questions or concerns about your own experience, you are welcome to contact SACL for free and confidential support.

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